“Love sees sharply, hatred sees even more sharp, but Jealousy sees the sharpest for it is love and hate at the same time”

someone asked me if ur not jealous of your partner does that means you dont love them..
well i bet most of the people think the same..
but to me it actually depends on the individual itself..
and to me, yea a strong relationship needs no jealousy..

actually people are confuse between jealousy and envy..
jealousy is angry,jealousy is destructive..
envy is wistful, envy rarely is destructive..
or easier jealousy is about something one has and is afraid of losing, while envy is about something one does not have and either wants to acquire it or prevent another from getting it..

to be frank im the envy type of person..
but the diff with me is i dont voice it out..
i'll just keep it in myself and just keep wondering..
well maybe that also isnt a good thing..
but that is how im build..

i had a chat recently with my friend who says that her bf is not the jealous type..
she showed me pic of her hugging other guys..
and i mean literally hugging..
like hands around waste type like in the titanic film..
and here is the best part, her bf is standing there or he was taking the pic cant remember it..
the point is that he wasnt bloody jealous that another guy hugs her girl..
she says that her bf trust her..
but i think if like ur bf/gf trust u pon they don like let other people just hug u like dat..
sorry to say, but i dont think thats trust..
more like don care one..
ahaha..

to me trust is like it doesnt matter that your partner whom ur partner goes out with..
till when they go out with and all the other details are not actually important..
as long as he/she tells u bout it..
jealousy is actually insecurity huh..
true2..